People are full of excuses, to some people they judge people merely by their appearance. They do not really know what had actually happened. Sometimes you lie, and hide the real thing. There is nothing wrong with that, as long as the secret won't bring any harm to anybody else.
There is always something that you are willing to share, and a few things that you would like to keep to yourself, apart from your diary. Different men lead different modes of life, and having a more well-off one doesn't mean you can criticize anyone as you like. Silence doesn't necessarily mean he/she agree with what you said. Perhaps it is good to not be too blunt, as someone may be hurt really bad.